How to Spend Quality Time with Your Partner

In our day to day, routine and monotony can get in the way of our relationships and make living together a little bit difficult. To deal with passing time, you could start doing things differently.
How to Spend Quality Time with Your Partner

Last update: 24 June, 2019

In these fast-paced times we’re living in, it’s easy to forget to take a break and dedicate time to your significant other. Lack of time, routine and stress at work can easily lead to couples drifting apart. That’s why spending quality time with your partner is essential.

The importance of work-life balance

Difficulty in setting a work-life balance is a common occurrence and affects many modern relationships. However, our fast-paced lives and our jobs’ demands make it even harder to establish boundaries between our professional and personal lives.

Personal life isn’t only about your relationship with your partner. Personal life involves all of your loved ones — be it family members, friends, neighbors, partners, pets, etc.

Beyond that, your personal life can tell you a great deal about yourself, how much time you put into growing as a person, to conquer your dreams beyond your job, to loosen up and enjoy life, and take pleasure in the experience of sharing your life with whoever you want.

Couple sharing a moment of quality time.

Taking time for yourself will make you better at work

Logically, work and education are key aspects of life that everyone should be able to enjoy. It’s not only about economic welfare, but it’s also about having the chance to grow professionally and feeling fulfilled with what you do.

Nowadays, with the job market as competitive as ever, it’s normal that you feel motivated to work extra hard to reach your goals. This, however, can put your relationships and your health in danger. When this happens, it’s better to rethink some things.

Spending quality time with your partner or your family doesn’t mean to just completely stop caring about your job. Going on a vacation, or just taking a day or two to do something that makes you feel good, won’t make you less of a great worker.

On the contrary, physical activity, arts, and entertaining activities will help you stay fit and sound of mind. Besides, this will keep stress and its side effects at bay, your social life will improve and a healthy lifestyle will make you happier.

The happier you are, the more creative you’ll be. You’ll be willing to learn and innovate more, to go beyond your wildest dreams and do better at your job.

Couple holding hands and spending quality time together.

How to spend quality time with your partner?

Most people in long-term relationships don’t remember what made them fall in love with their partners in the first place. This is risky and could end a relationship. It means you’ve lost that spark as a couple.

Many couples can remember how they met, or when they got married or started living together, and when their children were born. However, there’s a good chance that they don’t remember the little things that helped them choose their life partner.

Maybe, this happens because you’re always thinking about how to have a stable life, not a happy life. Even though stability is an important part of a balanced routine, by itself it’s unlikely to help your relationship thrive.

“When your job endangers your health and your relationship, you need to rethink things.”

Surely, a happy couple will feel motivated to improve their quality time every single day. There’s not a magic spell or a manual on how to be a happy couple, but you know that a healthy relationship demands time and dedication. Neglect will end your relationship.

A couple needs to share moments together and stop thinking about their jobs, family issues, economic woes, just for a little while. Just being together and enjoying each other’s company, doing whatever you please.

This is why it’s important to spend quality time with your partner. Dedicating a little part of your day and knowing how your partner is doing will get you a long way.

You never really stop getting to know a person, even if you’ve been together for the last 10 years, for example. Each person is a little universe of their own, they’re constantly evolving, they have their own needs and expectations, dramas and wonders.

Don’t miss out on the chance of getting to know your significant other a little bit more every day and falling in love again and again.

How to Spend Quality Time with Your Partner

The little things can mean everything in a relationship

Being in a happy and healthy relationship seems difficult to you? It’s not. Maybe not everybody can just pack their bags and travel to an exotic destination, however, you can show your love with little details, every single day.

Watching a movie together, giving them a compliment, or just having dinner together without looking at your phones are a few examples. Many times, it’s the little things that help you take a break, spend some quality time together, and strengthen the bond that keeps you and your partner together.


This text is provided for informational purposes only and does not replace consultation with a professional. If in doubt, consult your specialist.