7 Things That Differentiate Your Second Pregnancy From Your First
Pregnancy is a key moment in a woman’s life and marks the beginning of a new adventure. Few things compare to this experience and it’s difficult to overcome the emotions that are aroused during this time. But that doesn’t mean that new things can no longer be discovered because your second pregnancy also offers its own magic.
Next, we’ll share with you those questions that differentiate your second pregnancy from your first. Keep reading!
1. You know you’re pregnant sooner
Having already walked these paths, it’s likely that you’ll be able to quickly detect the signs of pregnancy. Now that you know the feeling of morning sickness or extreme fatigue, you won’t hesitate to take a test after even the most minimum delay in your period.
Also, even if you don’t notice it yet, your first child is likely to realize that there’s something inside you. Therefore, they may reveal your suspicion through certain behavioral changes.
2. You notice that your belly appears sooner
Your entire body underwent gestational changes with your first pregnancy and prepared each structure to accommodate a new life. For this reason, it’s no longer necessary for you to make so much effort to secure physical space for the baby this time.
The muscles, bones, and cartilage of your abdomen and pelvis are looser than before you were a mother and this translates into an early stretching. So, you’ll probably notice your bulging belly a few weeks before you did during your previous pregnancy.
In many cases, this anticipation favors the development of a baby that’s larger than its older sibling and in turn, the worsening of the lumbar (back) pain that you experienced previously.
3. You’ll feel your baby moving sooner
Many moms notice the first fetal movements of their second child somewhat earlier than they experienced with the first. This may be related to the recognition of these sensations or due to the laxity of the abdominal tissues, as we mentioned previously.
4. You’re more tired during your second pregnancy
The simple fact that you’re a mother makes you more tired than before living this experience. But this state is compounded by the effects of gestational hormones and lack of sleep.
This time around, you no longer have the necessary time to rest at night and during the day, as you surely had during your first pregnancy. Fortunately, experience tells you that all the stages in life are passing and that one day, you’ll go back to sleeping as you wish.
5. You have different fears
Although experience is a great ally of life, many times, it can play tricks on us.
The second pregnancy can transfer concerns about those unresolved issues from the first experience or even awaken new fears and guilt. We mustn’t forget that we have someone else to take care of, in addition to that new little one that lives within us.
However, it’s important that you can talk about it with your therapist or with your loved ones in order to find the relief you need. Going through this new stage with joy and tranquility is something that all moms deserve.
6. You know how to recognize contractions
What new mom hasn’t wondered if she was in labor or not? I bet most of us did. Fortunately, “practice makes perfect”, and during your second pregnancy, this saying comes true.
In general, mothers aren’t only able to better identify labor contractions with their second children, but also significantly reduce the duration of this process. This occurs because the cervix doesn’t have to dilate from scratch, as all structures are looser than before.
In contrast, postpartum pain (miscarriage) is usually more frequent and intense than in the case of first-time moms.
7. You have less time for yourself
Being a mother is a beautiful experience, but it entails certain sacrifices from which almost no woman escapes. Among them, dedicating part of our time to satisfying the needs and desires of our little ones.
Besides the organization of each family and the reality of each home, once the child is born, the dynamics of parents changes. And in general, we all have less free time to do those things we used to do when there were just two of us.
As for the moments dedicated to our second pregnancy, something similar happens. We no longer have the same availability to take a nap, a relaxing bath, share a lunch with friends, or be idle indefinitely. Our first child demands our attention 24 hours a day.
However, it’s important to also reserve a moment of each day to spend some time alone with our new baby. This allows us to establish that unique bond, which we haven’t yet discovered or experienced.
Not everything repeats itself in your second pregnancy
Each child is different and each pregnancy is different from the others. This keeps the flame of motherhood burning and there’s always room for one more.
While experience can be very helpful, sometimes it’s good to let your instincts carry you away and enjoy each stage and your new expectations.
Try to take advantage of what you know and let yourself be guided by that new little one that lives in you. After all, they, too, will make their unique imprint on your heart.It might interest you...
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